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The Top Ten Myths of Divorce

 8        Following divorce, the children involved are better off in stepfamilies than in single-parent families.


 1        Because people learn from their bad experiences, second marriages tend to be more successful than first marriages.

 2        Living together before marriage is a good way to reduce the chances of eventually divorcing.


 3        Divorce may cause problems for many of the children who are affected by it, but by and large these problems are not long lasting and the children recover relatively quickly.


 4        Having a child together will help a couple to improve their marital satisfaction and prevent a divorce.


 5        Following divorce, the woman’s standard of living plummets by seventy three percent while that of the man’s improves by forty two percent.


 6        When parents don’t get along, children are better off if their parents divorce than if they stay together.


7        Because they are more cautious in entering marital relationships